Happy Halloween

Well, the kids seemed to have a happy halloween. We have tons of candy. It is quite the trick to dole it out slowly.

Cakeb was Spok from Star Trek. I kept telling him to be happy, and he would say.... Happiness is not logical. If he ran his ears would fall off so he was slow, but that made Joseph happy, cause he is slow. Trever was Zoro, and he had a blast. And NO this Zoro did not get a sword.

Joseph was Bat Man for the second year in a row. He would wear the mask for a picture and then put it away. It bugged him.

Annie was a Butterfly. She was not to be left behind in the stroller. She would run up to the door with the boys, and get her candy. I was surprized she left he costume on, but she did. You couldn't hear her, but she would say trick or treat, and thaaaank you and I is a butterfly.

Cute cute. Mom got a little tired of trying to keep the kids together (Trever would run ahead, and the others would get so frustrated) but it was a pretty good halloween.

The Pocket

Having three boys, we have no shortage of boy parts stories. When Caleb was potty training, he was found crying one day and asked when I was going to die. I told him not for a very long time and asked why. He was so terribly concerned that I was going to explode because if I didn't have a P@#*, I could not go pee and would explode. Trever is still not sure that life is very fair. He thinks that if girls aren't lucky enough to be born with one, then they definately should be able to grow one when they get bigger. But our latest and greatest story is that of the pocket.
Joseph was having alot of trouble getting his underware on the right way. I tried and tried to show him the tag goes in the back. He was getting a sore bum because of the constant wedgie he had when his tighty whitys were on backwards, so I finally showed him the pocket in the front. I opened it up and he even put his had through it. Then he asked why he needed a pocket in his underware. I told him that he could use it when he is older. Of Course... Trever was very kind in his big brother duties to show him what the pocket is used for. Next thing I know Joseph comes running out of the bathroom with his "unit" poking out of the pocket in all kinds of pride and joy. He then wanted to show every visitor we had for the next few days his new "pocket". I do apologize to any of you who had the pleasure. You just never know what may greet you when you come to our house.
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In other news today, The permanancy hearing for Annie was today. DCFS was requesting that there be no more reunification, and that we move forward with a hearing to terminate parental rights. That was granted. The case goes back to court in Dec. We are hopeful that by the new year Annie will be leagally free, and we will proceed with the adoption. Thank you for all the prayers. Keep sending them. I feel bad for her birth parents, but they truely are not capable of taking care of her.

The Marble

I started this blog as a way to keep a kind of journal about the boys. In that interrest I must tell a few stories that have stood out in the last few months. This one is about the Marble.
The marble in question is (or should I say was) one of those Magnetix marbles. It is slightly heaver than a regular marble, maybe fractionaly bigger, and of course magnetic. Well, no matter how many times you tell your children not to put certain objects in their mouths, some lessons have to be learned the hard way. Joseph swallowed it. He was pretty sure he was going to throw up, or choke, or die. We are pleased to say that he did none of these things.
I called my mother just to make sure my intended course of action(wait and it will come out the other end) was the right one to take. My sister ( I shall not name names) was very worried for Joseph and thought I should take him to the ER, so that his organs would not be pulled out of order or worse by the magnet. I did not see her perticular worry as terribly truthful, so I waited.
About four days later, this is what transpired. It is about bed time and several children have been taking baths. Each time I go into the bathroom I find poo in the toilet that no one claims. I flush. After about the third flush, I complain rather loudly that my children are certainly smart enough to learn how to flush a toilet. It is starting to stink up the bathroom. Well, Joseph say,
"I tried to flush it, but the toilet is broken." So I flush again, and watch this time. It seems to go down, and all is well. Next time I turn around the same darn log is still there. It came back. WTH. I flush again..... and again. Then I peer very closely......... That darn shiny metal marble is poking out the side. Now most of us moms know that pennies, and marbles don't flush. I was very irritably contemplating how I was going to fish out the marble when Trever walks in, says ewwwww, I'll do it and flushes. It went. The boy has an air of authority over poo. I was saved. And Joseph is well, there were no excaped organs or anything. A fairly happy ending.

Then and Now

Our house hold is growing up.

I admit that I have been very deliquent in blogging. I don't have any really good reason, just lazy I guess. I looked at the cat the other day and noticed how big it has gotten in just the few short months that we have had him. And it struck me how fast my children are growing. Some days it feels way too slow...... but other days it hits me just how fast it is flying by.
I haven't gotten any pictures of Annie when she was tiny, but I didn't want to leave her out either. She is so beautiful, and she is learning and growing up each day right before my eyes.

My stupid computer put my pictures on backwards so you will actually get the Now, and then the then. Joseph is so excited to ride his big boy bike and loves to go out and take a spin. He is very good to remember his helmet. I am glad to have one more year with him before Kindergarten.

He was such a tiny little thing. Always so good natured and easy going. Always LOUD. He came into to this world saying " I will be heard!!!!"

Trever is always thinking. Always smiling about something. He has gotten a little anxious as school has approached and started. He has some tender feelers...... sometimes.

He has always had something he seemed to be up to. He is a jokester and an adventurous little devil. He loves cats, and he loves to pester. He really doesn't like to be pestered though.

I can hardly remember when Caleb was a baby. It seems several lifetimes ago. He is so mature for his age. He is loving, kind and tries always to please and be his best. He is smart, and very sensitive.

I didn't have a digital camera when Caleb was small. I tried to scan a smaller picture in, but I was not patient and couldn't get it to work right. This is one I scanned in a more patient time. The candy bar he stole from Dad is almost bigger than he is. Such a cute little boy. So precious, the light of our lives. Always, Always moms big helper.

It seems as if our baby days are coming to an end. It make me sad, and yet I look forward to my children growing up and becoming great adults. They are full of potential and goodness. I hope and pray every day that they won't need too much counsiling to undo my damage and reach their potential and dreams. I miss my babies...... I love my children and I hope for my grown children.

The great Outdoors

I find it odd how these things got on backwards. Anyway, this is what we all looked like after all the other pictures were taken. These are from our Palmer family campout at Rockport. We love the trailer and are really enjoying the lake. We have been to pine veiw a couple of times, at to east canyon, and now to rock port. We are all ready to go again.

If you look, close that is Annie and I on the jet ski. She kept begging for another "ide". It was so nice that all the kids had life jackets and just played and played. Very relaxing. Trever would swim and get cold, then lay out on his black tube and warm up.... over and over and over.

Joseph was amazing this year. Last year he would barely get his toes wet without crying. This year it was NO FEAR! He was rarely out of the water. So so so much fun. When I wasn't on a jest ski, I was relaxin on the beach. I did get to go for one wild tube ride and I made it up on skis. I was feeling like an old lady, but after my short trip on skis and my many jet ski trips, I feel much better about myself. What fun summer this is.

I am scared to get my camera ruined so I don't have much pictures. Caleb will ride the jet ski with me, but his favorite was to tube behind the boat. He didn't want to at first, but I was mean and made him go. It only took a few minutes at the right speed...(fast enough to get on top of the water) and he was a believer. I wish I had a pic of him tubing, but I didn't take my camera on the boat. I was working the ropes, being the flag person, and holding Annie... didn't really have a hand to spare anyway. Thanks to the Mertens for sharing their boat and the Palmers for sharing their jet skis. Give us a few years to save up some moolah and we are ready to get a three seater jet ski.

Lazer

Well, it has been decided that the cat shall be called Lazer, for that is a manly name. It is getting fat, and frisky. So far it seems to know that if it goes for my legs or feet it will be given to Shadow as a play toy. So far the new has not worn off either. I still have to solve the fights over the cat several times a day. Jason however loves the cat, and even though I keep threatening, it appears that the cat is staying. Four kids, two fish, a dog and a cat. The house is full. I keep thinking "I need to enjoy the full house because it won't be full forever." Some days it is easier than others. The summer seems to be flying by. It has finally warmed up here and today was a great summer day. We slept late, lounged around this morning. After lunch, we ate Ice cream cones at the park. Now Annie is down for a nap, and the boys are jumping on the trampoline while taking turns spraying it down with water. I hope you all are enjoying the fleeting days of summer.

Goings on

Caleb was riding his bike with his cousin and they found this kitten by the road. It was pretty gross looking and very scared. So they took it to my in laws house. There my wonderful sister i law and friend bathed it and cleaned out its nose and ears, and then she promptly put it in a kennel and brought it to my house. I know, she is so sweet. Anyway, I was holding it for just a minute thinking about it and Trever comes up. He sees the kitten, holds it for a second, and then hugs me saying " OH Mom, thank you thank you. I have been praying and praying for a cat. Now Heavenly Father answered my prayer. Thank you for getting me a cat. " There were almost tears in his eyes. So after Jason got the story and looked at the kitten, Trever and Dad promptly set out to get food, and litter. Have I mentioned my feelings on cats. ..... It is cute, and Trever seems to want to call him snowball. I guess I can go with SB for short. This picture is hard to see, but I had to post a picture of all the rain. No matter where we go, or what we have planned, we seem to get thunder showers to go with it. We were at the dinosaur park and the kids were playing in the sand on the play ground equipment when this cloud burst came. They were all very wet, and sandy, but it provided a great time for all.

Here is Annie and mom under the awning trying to stay dry while all the kids were having a great time in the rain.

We are all having a great time with lots of cousins this summer. The days stay busy and we are getting excited to go camping again. I will try to post more pics soon.